November 2009

how to handle requests for salary history

A reader writes: I am searching for a new position and more than half of listings require salary history. Not even requirements but history, which I think is completely unjust and I typically do not give out because a) it’s confidential, b) it’s excessive in wanting to know about the applicant and c) if my […]

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when you can’t recommend a friend for a job

A reader writes: I have a friend (kinda) who applied for a position at the hotel I work at. It would be working directly with me. I did not and would not recommend her for this position. I know she is not a good fit. She applied, put my name down, and got an interview. […]

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should I include an audio clip with my resume?

A reader writes: I had an idea which I wanted to bounce off of you. I was thinking one way I could make myself different from the rest of the pack is a quick audio overview of myself; sort of an elevator speech directed at the organization I am interested in. I am looking to […]

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is using “we” in an interview presumptuous?

A reader writes: In a job interview, I have been asked questions based on scenarios (i.e., “What would you do if…” or “How would you handle…” with specific situations or projects that are actually going on at the organization or are coming up). I often catch myself answering using “we” as if I’m already part […]

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Why performance reviews deserve a better rap

Performance evaluations sometimes get a bad rap by people who see them as a bureaucratic waste of time. And yes, if you treat performance evaluations as a waste of time, an exercise you just have to get through so you can say it was done, that’s exactly what it’ll be. But when done right, by […]

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former boss is waging campaign of harassment against me

A reader writes: I used to be quite good friends with my immediate manager; I met her through her brother, who I was very close to, and for a while we actually lived together. Then it all fell to pieces. On a personal level, we had a falling out (she stole a large amount of […]

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accepted a job; do I need to notify other places I applied?

A reader writes: I got a job that I really wanted and I’m happy and grateful. My question is what’s the best way to let other prospective employers know? These are places where I put in resumes, but haven’t gotten interviews. (If I had interviewed for another job and was still waiting, I would call […]

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how not to pitch a blogger: for publicists

Thank you, but no, I do not want to receive a free copy of your book to review, or interview the author who you’re promoting, or reprint your press release about your product. As you may notice from reading my blog, I’ve never promoted a book (well, except my own), interviewed an author, or reprinted […]

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no one told me my coworker was fired

A reader writes: Yesterday I found out through coworkers that one of our managers left/was fired (closer to the latter, I think… I have heard he was in a “you need to show improvement in three months” situation which ended this week). His name is still on his office, and his things are still here, […]

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employee potluck lunches, with allergies

A reader writes: I am a third grade elementary school teacher and our school holds a “potluck” lunch for the staff every other Friday. Due to my numerous and severe food allergies, I have politely excused myself from attending these gatherings and therefore I do not sign up to contribute. Since the economic downturn, it […]

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