things that aren’t good ideas

March 8, 2011

Just FYI, I get a lot of email at Ask a Manager. I have an auto-reply set up that explains that the volume of mail means that I can’t answer everything. And if I ask you why you’ve sent me the same exact email three times in the past few weeks, this is not a good answer:

A lot of people think it is a complicated situation and can’t give a straight suggestion. Therefore I sent you an email every week to be able to receive an answer.

That’s all.

{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

Sabrina March 8, 2011 at 10:02 am

Well now I want to know what they asked.

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Becky March 8, 2011 at 10:28 am

Me too. Also, I cannot believe that people do that kind of thing. Those are the same people who call to follow up on a job application every couple days, without regard for what the job ad said or what you have told them already.

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DJO March 8, 2011 at 10:59 am

These people are known as They Who Don’t Have Good Judgement. AAM’s advice would be wasted on them anyway.

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Stephen March 8, 2011 at 11:14 am

I want to know too! :)

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Rachel - Former HR Blogger March 8, 2011 at 11:54 am

I guess it’s a compliment because she/he assumes you can give a good answer? Although that does not address why she/he felt they could be annoying about it.

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Josh S March 8, 2011 at 2:36 pm

Some people just have no sense of social propriety. I’ll give the guy/gal the benefit of the doubt and suggest they have aspergers or some other Autism spectrum disorder that prevents them from understanding proper etiquette.

Otherwise it’s just rude.

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Phyr March 8, 2011 at 4:17 pm

While I would normally want to know what they are asking, I have a feeling their actions sum it up pretty well. :3

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Katy O March 22, 2011 at 1:00 pm

I bet their question was “Why can’t I find a job?”

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Richard March 9, 2011 at 7:07 am

I’m kind of hoping that their question was ‘How soon should I email for a follow up after not getting a reply from a job interview?’

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Nate March 9, 2011 at 11:42 pm

You *know* the email that person sent those three times is something that has been answered here at least six times.

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Emily March 9, 2011 at 11:51 pm

This reminds me of a series of phone calls I’ve been getting lately. Someone calls my office at just about precisely 5:25pm a couple of times a week, leaves a name and number (not even a “please call me back,” let alone any details about the purpose of their call, just, “This is _____. My number is ###.”) They are never available when I phone the next day, morning or afternoon. I’m glad you asked why your person WHY they kept sending the same e-mail. Next time I return the call, I’m going to drop similar hammer in the voicemail. I’m all for courtesy, but I can’t help you if you won’t give me any info or even a valid way to reach you!

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