March 2015

update: my boss makes us all keep the office kosher for Passover

Remember the letter-writer whose boss makes everyone keep the office kitchen kosher for Passover? Here’s an update. First of all, thank you for explaining why my boss must do what he does during Passover. Even if he wasn’t the sole owner, his business partner would probably be Jewish too, like his wife or brother. He’s 76 […]

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what to do when an employee gives you info in confidence

A reader writes: I’ve had an employee come to me to tell me about some problematic behavior he witnessed from another employee. It’s serious enough that not addressing it isn’t an option, but the employee who told me about it asked me not to reveal that the information came from him. However, no one else […]

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open thread – March 27, 2015

It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […]

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employee reported her coworker for a Facebook photo that showed some skin, time-traveling interviewers, and more

It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Employee reported her coworker for a Facebook photo that showed some skin My coworker, “Kara,” reported our coworker “Sally” to the manager of our organization for having a Facebook profile photo that Kara felt was inappropriate and reflected poorly on the organization. The photo showed […]

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how can I help my boss manage his time better?

A reader asks: How do you put order and structure to a boss’s calendar that is out of control with constant meetings and no time to get any work done? Due to downsizing, my manager oversees three departments now instead of just one. My boss has meetings on top of meetings on top of meetings, […]

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employer pulled the job offer after I tried to negotiate

A reader writes: My job offer was rescinded after I sent an email attempting to negotiate the base salary to $3,000 plus what was originally offered. I was horrified after receiving the employer’s initial response withdrawing the offer. Such a situation is rarely talked about in internet job articles (I read yours on this matter […]

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my new coworker is the contractor who I fired last year

A reader writes: I am a government employee with a few supporting contractors. About a year and a half ago, I had a contractor removed for poor performance. She was in a role that required her to do analysis and prepare written reports on the results, but she did not have the skills to do […]

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should you tell your boss about a slacker coworker?

A reader writes: How do you express concerns about a slacking coworker to your boss without coming out sounding like a jerk? I have a coworker who spends quite a bit of time visiting with other employees. This same person expects others on the team to “offer” to help with work not finished. We’ve tried to gently […]

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