February 2016

my boss won’t stop pressuring me to work more hours

A reader writes: I work in an office with my boss and one coworker. From the very beginning, it was agreed upon that I would only work two days out of the week. I accepted because I am a full-time college student, and it worked perfectly with my schedule and major. I learned everything pretty […]

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making new hires sing a song at a staff meeting

A reader writes: My husband worked at a marketing firm last summer after 18 months of unemployment and learning website design. They offered him a very low salary due to him being new to teapot design, even though he had a 15-year background in the broader field. On his second week, the owner insisted that all […]

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when you don’t click with your interviewer

A reader writes: I’ve been on interviews where after interviewing with one person, another one comes right after and continues the process. I realize that this is to see that I can “fit in,” but how do I deal with the one interviewer with whom I’m not going to click? I can feel when I’m […]

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do you need life insurance? quite possibly.

And now a break to talk about a sponsor… The older I get, the more time I find myself thinking about topics like wrinkles (hello, laugh lines that seemingly appeared on my face overnight!), retirement planning, and how I need to line up someone now to bring me food when I become a shut-in (that […]

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employee deserves a higher performance evaluation rating, how to respond to “is everything okay?” and more

It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My employee deserves a higher performance evaluation rating than I can give him Yearly appraisal time. About a month ago, I was told to turn in any requests to rate employees at the highest performance level of “significantly exceeds standards.” These appraisals were to be […]

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talking about passion in an interview, and an update

Remember the letter-writer who was interviewing for a position as executive director at a nonprofit and who wanted to ask about their budget deficit (#4 at the link)? Here’s the update — and a new question. First off, the interview did not go all that well in spite of my preparation. I just didn’t do […]

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