interviewing with a manager who wanted to lay me off, customers who make religious comments, and more by Alison Green on June 26, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Interviewing with a manager who wanted to lay me off My manager at my last company had me on his layoff list. Another manager showed me the list looking for the name of someone who got laid off not realizing I was on it, and […] Read the full article →
I’m getting a promotion — with mystery pay by Alison Green on June 25, 2024 A reader writes: I’m a senior-level individual contributor at a large organization, and I’m in a bit of a pickle. About a month ago, I was informed that I’m being given a promotion, and my role is expanding to include managing a team of people doing work similar to what I do, in addition to […] Read the full article →
I’m the weakest link on my team by Alison Green on June 25, 2024 A reader writes: I work with a very talented team of individuals, and I feel like I can’t operate at their level. I consistently complete fewer tasks than the rest of the team, and I need guidance on things I’ve been working with for years. I’ve improved greatly from where I was when I started […] Read the full article →
is it discrimination that all the moms in the company have to have childcare but the one dad doesn’t? by Alison Green on June 25, 2024 A reader writes: Over the past few months, I’ve found myself increasingly frustrated and resentful, and I fear it’s clouding my judgment. Any advice, even if it’s simply to let go, would be appreciated. I work for a nonprofit that operates across several states. We have a predominantly female workforce, many of whom are mothers […] Read the full article →
managing an interruptor during urban foraging, offering to consult for my old job, and more by Alison Green on June 25, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Managing an interruptor during an urban foraging class A dear friend of mine teaches classes on urban foraging for edible weeds, such as dandelions, creeping wood sorrel, and stinging nettles. She’s written a book on how to identify, ethically forage, and cook common urban weeds. […] Read the full article →
the coffee revolt, the blue spoon abduction, and other wild overreactions at work by Alison Green on June 24, 2024 Last week we talked about wild overreactions at work. Here are 10 of my favorite stories you shared. 1. The cups At my company, we used to use paper cups at our cafe (where we get lattes for 50 cents). When we switched to reusable cups, it was OUTRAGE. The announcement post on our internal […] Read the full article →
why is your job asking you for money? by Alison Green on June 24, 2024 When you go to work, you assume you’re there to earn income — so it can be particularly galling when your workplace pressures you to part with your hard-earned cash. Yet, being expected to open your wallet is surprisingly common in the workplace. From collections taken up for office baby showers to retirements to farewell […] Read the full article →
I used ChatGPT to replace a team’s input when they weren’t responding … and now I’m panicking by Alison Green on June 24, 2024 A reader writes: I messed up royally. I’m two years in my first full-time role. My job is like in-house consulting. My team is trying to improve our internal processes. We interview people in the process about what they’re struggling with and look for ways to improve it. I’ve done a lot of these interviews […] Read the full article →
can I say no to attending a three-night retreat, can a company hold onto your property after they fire you, and more by Alison Green on June 24, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Employee is unhappy that a coworker with an accent is “mispronouncing” her name I supervise a small team in a large nonprofit. Our organization is very big on DEI and ensuring we have an inclusive environment. Using other people’s preferred names is a non-negotiable for […] Read the full article →
weekend open thread — June 22-23, 2024 by Alison Green on June 21, 2024 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. Here are the rules for the weekend posts. Book recommendation of the week: Margo’s Got Money Troubles, by Rufi Thorpe. A 20-year-old with a new baby turns to her pro wrestler father and a demented OnlyFans account […] Read the full article →