is liquor inappropriate at a work event that offers beer and wine, visitors want to use our employees-only bathroom, and more by Alison Green on August 7, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Is liquor inappropriate at a work event that offers beer and wine? This is a silly, low-stakes question, but I’m curious. I work very closely with another coworker and we frequently plan events for a specific network of professionals. My coworker absolutely refuses to offer […] Read the full article →
creepy coworker is following my wife, interviewers want to talk about my feelings after rejecting me, and more by Alison Green on August 6, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Can my wife report her creepy coworker to HR? My wife is in a concerning situation at work. A coworker who started out as a friend began crossing the line, making it clear he was looking for more. The comments he made were more “creepy” […] Read the full article →
I was told to do less work, two of my employees hold private “accountability” meetings, and more by Alison Green on August 5, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My team was told to do less work I’ve had an interesting three months at work. During this period, my team of three was pulled aside while one service desk team member was out. We were asked in that meeting to work LESS diligently so […] Read the full article →
employee isn’t as productive on her WFH days, politics on LinkedIn, and more by Alison Green on August 2, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. My employee isn’t as productive on her WFH days I work in a university on a small team of just me and one other, Claire. Claire is in her mid-30s and has been in her role for over 10 years, initially full-time and now three […] Read the full article →
I think a company leader is faking his work history, a burned-out coworker, and more by Alison Green on August 1, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I think a company leader is faking his work history A coworker and I discovered that a member of our company’s C-suite is very likely misrepresenting his work history. We both noticed that his executive bio, which is provided to press, doesn’t align with his […] Read the full article →
is my girlfriend’s boss crossing a line, commenting on food expenses from a business trip, and more by Alison Green on July 31, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Is my girlfriend’s boss crossing a line? My girlfriend is a manager at a psychiatric office, but I feel that her male boss crosses the line in conversations — for example, giving her his opinion on periods and how she shouldn’t have one and telling […] Read the full article →
retiring coworker took credit for our full product line, can I take off my shoes at work, and more by Alison Green on July 30, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Coworker’s retirement email took credit for our full product line I received an email from a coworker who is retiring next month. The worker, let’s call him Carl, announced his upcoming retirement and then bragged for a long paragraph about his integral design accomplishments for […] Read the full article →
boss won’t stop complaining about my maternity leave, team doesn’t read email, and more by Alison Green on July 29, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My boss won’t stop complaining about my maternity leave I’m four months pregnant and I had to (chose to) tell my boss when I was eight weeks due to my nausea and sickness. When I told him, his first reaction was, “How much maternity leave […] Read the full article →
interviewer mocked my speech impediment, telling coworkers I’m having a baby unconventionally, and more by Alison Green on July 26, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. My interviewer mocked my speech impediment I recently had a job interview that was extremely unpleasant. I won’t go into the details, but suffice it to say, there were so many red flags that the conference room was practically shrouded in a crimson miasma. I’m […] Read the full article →
I’m biased toward midwesterners, cleaning up after a reply-all email storm, and more by Alison Green on July 25, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I’m biased toward midwestern candidates At the east coast company I work at, I’m frequently on hiring committees for competitive positions that typically include a wide range of candidates from all over the U.S. I recently noticed a concerning pattern in the candidates that I […] Read the full article →