April 2018

we need to end Secretaries Day

This is a reprint of a column I wrote several years ago. Sadly my call was not heeded then, so here it is again. Today is Secretaries Day, and we should end it this year. The “holiday” – more recently updated to be called Administrative Professionals Day – was created by the International Association of Administrative […]

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what your tone should sound like in tricky work conversations

This week’s episode of the Ask a Manager podcast is one I’ve been excited to do since I launched the show, and it’s one of the reasons why I thought a podcast could be really useful. This episode talks about tone. When I answer questions here, I give a lot of sample language to use and often talk about […]

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is it okay to blindside your boss when quitting?

A reader writes: I have a question about how unprofessional it is to “blindside” your boss when quitting. Six months ago I started a new job with a multinational company. I asked the internal recruiter specifically about travel expectations and how much interaction I needed to have with the other office. I’ve worked across countries […]

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get your signed copy of the new Ask a Manager book now

There’s just one week left to get a signed copy of the new Ask a Manager book, Ask a Manager: How to Navigate Clueless Colleagues, Lunch-Stealing Bosses, and the Rest of Your Life at Work. If you pre-order now, you can sign up for a free signed bookplate here. (Details are at the link, but basically you provide proof of purchase […]

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my coworker won’t stop complaining about work

A reader writes: A friend and coworker of mine (we met at our current job and became friends outside of work), I’ll call her Donna, is deeply unhappy. Her morale is low and rightfully so—her manager is, to be blunt, incompetent, and she’s had to put up with multiple negative experiences over the past couple […]

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my coworker abuses our office IM program

A reader writes: I have a problem that is a minor thing in the grand scheme of things, but it is really starting to get on my nerves. My office uses an instant messaging system, in addition to email, to communicate since 95% of the team works from home. It’s a pretty standard system with […]

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