updates

updates: the alcoholic coworker, the bad morale, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I think my coworker is an alcoholic (first update here) At this point, the update is pretty far removed from […]

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updates: the counteroffer, the bullying, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I accepted a counteroffer four months ago but now want to quit (#2 at the link) I wrote to you […]

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update: should I talk to my coworker about her off-putting behavior?

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer asking if she should talk to her coworker about her off-putting behavior, including yelling and interrupting? Here’s the update. In 2018 I became this colleague’s […]

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updates: the sweat lodge, the mentor, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworker wants our office to do a sweat lodge ceremony I’m writing with an update from a few years […]

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updates: the coworkers complaining about kids, the boss demanding location sharing, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My child-free coworkers constantly complain about people with children I’m still at the same workplace. The grousing specifically about children […]

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