updates

updates: the follower-upper, the different title, and more

Here are three updates from people who had their letters answered here in the past. 1. Should I tell my employer I may have brought COVID-19 to work in January? (first update here) I missed the chance to respond in the comments when you published my original update, as I’d just started my new job that […]

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updates: the top knot, stranded without a hotel room, and more

Here are four updates from people who had their letters answered here in the past. 1. I get second and third interviews but no job offers, and my grandma says it’s because of my top knot (caller 4 in the podcast episode) Thank you for picking up my question about third round interviews, defeated and depleted […]

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update: someone with my name has stolen my work history

Remember the letter from the person whose work history had been stolen by someone using her same name (#3 at the link)? Someone was using her references, claiming to be her. Here’s the update. A big thanks to all the readers in the comments. You guys came with such fantastic suggestions. I contacted a lawyer […]

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updates: the bombed interview, the cheating coworker, and more

Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I bombed in an interview I asked for Thanks for publishing my letter. I appreciate your advice and all of the input from commenters. It helped me get a better understanding of how I had (and hadn’t) affected my goals, as well as the crisis of confidence […]

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update: my boss wants to bring me back into the religious fold

Remember the letter-writer whose boss was trying to bring her back into the religion he shared with her family? The first update was here, and here’s the latest: So, right before my letter was published I had one extremely uncomfortable interaction at an off-site office event with (former) Big Boss which crossed entirely new lines. I […]

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