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A reader writes:

I am only a few years out of school, working my first long-term job. I’ve recently been doing some above-and-beyond work for my employer, and a senior coworker mentioned that this sort of work is often rewarded with a bonus. I’ve never received a bonus before, and I’m hoping you would be willing to discuss a little Bonus Etiquette 101.

Am I expected to write a thank-you note for the bonus, or is an in-person thank-you enough? Am I allowed/expected to discuss it with coworkers, or is it taboo like salary? If I accept the bonus, does that mean this work won’t be considered for my next raise? Bonuses aren’t supposed to be negotiated like salaries, are they? For what it’s worth, bonuses aren’t discussed in our HR documents, so I don’t think my company has any official policy on bonuses.

There’s some variety in how employers handle bonuses, but in general here’s how they work:

* You do not need to write a thank-you note. (Remember, the idea is that you’ve earned the bonus; it’s not a favor or a gift.) However, you should thank your boss in-person for recognizing the work you did. A thank-you is good so that you don’t come across as if you’re unmoved by it or that you take it as par for the course; show you appreciate it, and you’re more likely to keep getting them.

* There are some offices where it’s normal to discuss bonuses with others, but plenty where it’s absolutely not. Err on the side of assuming that you shouldn’t, unless you see otherwise in your workplace (although even then, I still wouldn’t go around talking about it, but I’m private about that stuff).

* Generally speaking, work that earned you a bonus should still be considered for your next raise — in that it contributes to an overall picture of how you’re doing. Keep in mind that raises aren’t generally tit for tat — “you did project X and Y so we’re giving you a $5,000 raise” — but rather about your performance as a whole. Bonuses are more often linked to specific performance measures (“you wildly exceeded your sales goal”) or events (“you spent three months working crazy hours to make sure our conference was a success”).

* You don’t typically negotiate a bonus, unless it’s part of the overall compensation structure that you’re negotiating as part of a job offer. A bonus is generally a way of saying, “Hey, you’re doing a really great job.” If I gave someone a bonus and they tried to negotiate it, I’d be really turned off — don’t do that. (It’s fine to negotiate your salary itself though, at whatever point that discussion happens.)

By the way, for your own happiness and job satisfaction, don’t assume you’re getting a bonus simply based on what your coworker said. She might not be right, and if you start expecting it, you risk being disappointed or even resentful if you don’t. So don’t get too focused on getting this, and let it be a nice surprise if it happens.

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A reader writes:

This week I accepted a job I am really excited about. During the interview process, I was asked what salary I was looking for, and I answered honestly with what I thought was an appropriate salary (I only have one year of experience so I wasn’t exactly sure, and I didn’t have any luck on sites like glassdoor.com). When the offer came in, it was 1k higher than what I had asked for, and I happily accepted. The next step was to head in to HR to sign some paperwork. As the HR rep explained the amazing benefits and perks of the job, I noticed a piece of paper in front of him that gave a clear rundown of my job: my name, my supervisor’s name, my salary, the reason the position was created, etc. Then I saw the salary range for the position—it was 15-25k more than what I had been offered. My heart sank.

I’ll admit, it’s not all bad. I got the salary I asked for and I am thrilled about the job (and actually have two years less experience than they had wanted). But I am worried about what this means for the rest of my career. What is my best bet for catching up to the salary range? Is it possible to renegotiate my salary in a year or two, or is a 20k jump just unheard of for that sort of thing? Or is it safer to wait a while longer and try to get promoted to a senior position and angle for the increase then? Or did I just really mess things up and have set myself up to always make 20k less than I could have?

You might have limited your salary at this company, but not for the rest of your career.

A $20,000 raise is pretty unusual — not unheard of, but rare and hard to get. (Actually, it’s more helpful to talk about raises in terms of percentages; a $20,000 raise could be perfectly feasible if you’re already making six figures, but with only one year of experience, I’m assuming that you’re not.)

However, at whatever point you leave this company, it should get easier to negotiate for more money. It’s always easier to negotiate before you’re working somewhere than after you are … since once you are, they already know what you’re willing to work for — a key element in negotiating.

After all, you’re under no obligation to share your salary history with prospective new employers. Some will insist on it, but plenty won’t. Moreover, even with companies that do insist on knowing your salary history, you can still sometimes argue that you’re worth significantly more. (Here’s an account of how I once did that myself.)

But it’s also worth noting that you might not have made a big mistake at all. After all, you were happy with the offer until you saw that piece of paper. Plus, since you have less experience than what they wanted, your salary may simply reflect that reality; the range you saw might have been for a candidate with the amount of experience they were originally looking for. (And I can pretty much guarantee that if you cited the range you saw in asking for more now, they’d cite your lack of experience right back, even if they were willing to pay you more earlier.)

Of course, this is a perfect illustration of why it’s frustrating for candidates that companies make them name a number first. Job seekers are rarely in as strong of a position as an employer is to have a solid idea of what a position should pay, and plenty of employers take advantage of that.

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A reader writes:

I have a question in regard to a piece of the recruiting process.

I have always asked candidates what their compensation requirements are, either before they come in to meet with me or after they have come in. Most candidates do not have any issues disclosing what they’re looking for, although some get a little uncomfortable.

Recently, I have a candidate who I spoke to over the phone, and I thought he was great. He came in to meet with us, and again, we thought he was great. I asked him to disclose his compensation requirements because we wanted to move forward with an offer and he didn’t want to disclose. Rather, he wanted us to come to him with an offer based on what title he fell under after meeting with him.

I’ve never had this happen and now here we are wanting to move forward, I have no clue what his expectations are and he refuses to budge on sharing. We discussed what we felt was reasonable and when I shared this with him, he came back saying he did a LOT of research and thinks he’s essentially worth $30k more than what we want to offer. Eeeeekkkk.

I’m curious, is it not normal for recruiters/hiring managers to be asking for this information off the bat? Am I missing something? I’ve always operated that way to make sure we’re all on the same page but this experience is making me feel otherwise.

I know compensation is a touchy subject for a lot of candidates, but it concerns me that he wasn’t straightforward with expectations from the get go. I’m not sure why, but I’m also comfortable sharing my compensation requirements with hiring managers when I’m interviewing — nothing to hide, in my opinion.

This is a situation where I wish I could say, “Had we discussed this early on, we all would have realized we’re not compatible” but I’ll bite my tongue. Just a disappointment because he likes us a lot but not sure if he likes us enough for $30k less. He said he’s willing to “entertain” a counter offer. I don’t know — I don’t like where this is going. What’s your opinion?

It’s absolutely reasonable to ask what kind of salary candidates are looking for, although you should also be willing to discuss what range you’re intending to pay (which it sounds like you are).

(Side note: I do think it’s ridiculous when employers insist on knowing a candidate’s salary history, but that’s not what you’re talking about here — you’re talking about what a candidate would like to get paid, which I agree is a reasonable topic for discussion, as long as there’s two-way disclosure.)

I suspect your candidate’s actions can be explained by this:  There is a lot of advice out there telling candidates to avoid naming a number first — because they might inadvertently lowball themselves. Plus, the employer generally has a range that they’re planning to place the salary within, so they might as well share what it is.  That’s reasonable advice — except that some people take it a step further and tell candidates to absolutely refuse to discuss money until they’ve been through your interview process and convinced you of their value. At that point, you’re apparently supposed to be so blown away by them that your original salary range will go out the window and you will write them a much larger check.

Unsurprisingly, this rarely works.

Not only do most employers insist on talking numbers on their own timetable, not the candidate’s, but candidates also often do themselves a disservice by this approach. If a candidate wants $X but won’t tell you that, and so you make an offer that’s $30,000 below $X, now you have a much bigger difference to bridge … and the chances of it happening are lower. Whereas if you knew ahead of time that the candidate wanted $X, you’d probably try to make your offer closer to that if at all possible (meaning the candidate has less negotiating to do to get to the salary he really wants) … and if it’s not possible, then you could say that early on and everyone would save some time.

Anyway, overall my principles are this: Salary history is no one’s business, but salary expectations should be discussed openly by both sides.

Your guy didn’t do that, so he shouldn’t be shocked that you’re so far apart. Now, that said, you would have saved yourself some time earlier on by saying, “We plan to pay $X – $Y. Is that in line with what you’re looking for?” … but you didn’t do that either, so you probably shouldn’t be shocked by the distance yourself. The lesson: Discuss salary earlier. Be willing to throw out numbers yourself. Be suspicious if you name a range and the candidate still won’t talk about his or her own range.

And when it comes time to negotiate, know what the work is worth, make an offer you’re comfortable with, don’t get pressured into paying more than the position is worth to you, and be willing to walk away if you can’t come to terms you’re both happy with.

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For some reason, I’ve received a bunch of letters lately asking about how to use a job offer from somewhere else as leverage in getting a raise from a current employer. This is generally — not always, but generally — a bad idea, and over at U.S. News & World Report today, I write about why. You can read it here.

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When people ask for a raise, they often go about it entirely wrong — building their argument around things that have nothing to do with whether they deserve a raise:

“Joe makes $10,000 more than I do.”

“I just got my masters.”

“I meet all my job requirements.”

… and more.

Over at U.S. News & World Report today, I talk about things you shouldn’t say when you’re asking for a raise. You can read it here.

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A reader writes:

I was looking at a flyer for the upcoming job/internship fair hosted by my university. It included tips for job-seekers navigating the fair. One of them advised not to ask about salary or benefits. Is it just me, or does this seem really weird and even inappropriate? It’s a job. The whole point is to earn money. Do companies (at job fairs or otherwise) really expect job-seekers to pretend that the job-seekers are just prostrate with the desire to work for them to the point that compensation doesn’t matter?

This is one of the weirder fictions of job searching, but yeah, the general advice about this is not to ask about salary until you’re at the offer stage, or at least until you’ve had a serious expression of interest from the employer.

Is this dumb? Yes. Does it fly in the face of the reality of the situation, which is that most people work for money? Yes. But is it the convention that you probably want to play by? Yep.

In fact, most people will actually tell you never to raise money at all — to wait and see what kind of offer the employer makes you. I wouldn’t go that far; I think that if you have reason to fear that the salary won’t be in line with what the market’s paying (for instance, if you’re interviewing with a cash-strapped nonprofit or a notoriously stingy for-profit), it’s fine to ask about it once you’re invited in for an interview, saying something like, “Can you give me an idea of the salary range for this position so we can make sure we’re in the same ballpark?”  (Of course, if you do that, you need to be prepared for the typical you-first silliness that often accompanies salary talk — the awkward pauses and the coy “well, what are you looking for?”)

But not at a job fair. Because the reality is that if you’re asking about salary before an employer has expressed any serious interest in you, you’re fairly likely to make a negative impression. I can’t defend this. I can only tell you that that’s how this stuff works.

Now, that’s not to say that you should act like you’re “prostrate with the desire to work for them.” In fact, you definitely shouldn’t do that. You want to seem like someone with options and someone who’s evaluating whether or not the role and employer would be right for you, just as much as they’re evaluating whether you’d be right for them. And yes, obviously money is going to be a part of that — but not at this stage.

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A reader writes:

I’m looking for advice on how to deal with rude recruiters, due to a phone interview with one earlier this morning. 

A third-party recruiter contacted me for a slew of opportunities he was hired to fill for a start-up company. Presumably, he found my profile on LinkedIn, as a few others have in recent months. Our initial 30-minute phone conversation about his client went very well, and after reviewing a position description forwarded to me in follow-up via email, we set a second more formal phone interview, during which he screened me to write a report for his client. This one- hour conversation went very well as well, until he started asking about compensation, at which point his tone of voice became quite gruff, aggressive, and at one point even demeaning.

Recruiter: Tell me what is your compensation structure?

Me: What do you mean by compensation structure?

Recruiter: What is your base pay and bonus structure?

Me: I’m not comfortable revealing that information. I would rather you tell me what the salary range for this Director level position is that you sent me a description for, and I’ll let you know if that meets my expectations.

Recruiter: No, you have to tell me your salary information. This is how it works. Your potential offer will be based on how much you earn right now and without this information we can not proceed.

Me: I don’t understand. Shouldn’t the offered salary be based on the position the company is looking to fill, and the skills and experience which I bring to them? I am not interested in wasting my time our yours either, don’t you know the salary range for this position?

Recruiter: No, it’s not my time, it’s my client’s time that you would be wasting! Yes, I know their range, but the offer is based on YOUR current salary.

Me: I’m sorry, I still don’t understand. Shouldn’t the salary offered be based on what I bring to the firm?

Recruiter: Look, I’ve done a lot of recruiting and occasionally I come across situations like this. Look, you’re just one in a million and so if it’s not you it will be someone else.

Me: Mhmm, well, I can give you a range of what my salary expectations are for the next opportunity I take on.

Recruiter: Okay that is fine.

I gave him my range and he said, “okay, that is in line with the Associate Director position.” I pointed out that I was forwarded the description of Director, and the Associate Director position is for someone with less work experience. He said, “Sure, so the company may choose to hire you at a higher level, in which case your range would still be fine.” I let him know that he should understand my position too of not wanting to be short-sold, and he said that based on my salary expectations I don’t need to worry about that.

Now, without his tone of voice added to this dialogue, the conversation may not seem as aggressive as it sounded to me in conversation. But it is quite difficult for anyone to overlook his condescending remarks about how I was wasting his client’s time and that I was just one in a million resumes that he was reviewing and was easily replaceable. If that were the case, then why did he contact me first for this opportunity? And wouldn’t we have achieved the same outcome if he gave me a range and I let him know it was too low for me? Thirdly, as a representative of the firm he’s hiring for, do I want to work with an employer that doesn’t value me and has the attitude that he can replace me at the drop of a hat? In my opinion, this is no way to hire top talent, especially for a rapidly growing start-up.

I wish I had stood my ground more strongly and let him know that in fact I was averaging 2-3 interviews a week, that many recruiters and HR reps were finding my 5+ years of industry experience and excellent education profile to be quite appealing, and remind him that he was trying to recruit someone who is quite comfortably employed, and therefore not desperate for his client’s offer letter. However, I didn’t want to get in the way of an opportunity to speak to the firm itself.

Do you have recommendations on how I could have handled this conversation better, and the attitude with which I should proceed in this company’s interview process? I’m worried about leaving money on the table, distraught that an opportunity which I was otherwise quite excited about has been tainted by this disrespectful conversation, and worried about what this experience means going forward in the interview process with this firm.

Why, yes, I do have advice about handling conversations like this:  Don’t deal with jerks. You sound like you have plenty of options, so you can simply decline to work with people who operate this way.

At the same time, it also sounds like you took a fairly confrontational approach right off the bat, which you didn’t need to do.

Let’s re-write that conversation to show you how it would have gone with a different approach.

Recruiter: Tell me what is your compensation structure?

You: I’m looking for a range of $X to $Y.  Is that in the ballpark?

At that point the recruiter probably would have just told you, but if not, then you’d get something like this:

Recruiter: What are you making currently? I need your salary history.

You: My employer’s salary structure is covered by my confidentiality agreement with them, but I’m looking for $X to $Y.

Again, at this point the recruiter is probably going to stop pushing, but let’s say that he doesn’t.

Recruiter: You have to tell me your current salary or we can’t proceed.

You: I’m sorry to hear that. I’m assuming you think I’m a strong candidate since you contacted me, and I’ve told you what I’d need to earn in order to leave my current job. But if we can’t proceed further, that’s fine.

Now, I want to emphasize that this advice accounts for the fact that you have options. If you didn’t have options and were desperate for this job, and the recruiter was insistent, you might have no choice but to give in and cough up your current salary.  I think that’s BS for all the same reasons you do (it’s no one’s business but yours; compensation should be based what the company thinks your worth is, not what someone else thought your worth was; etc.), but the reality is that if you’re desperate for the opportunity, you don’t have the luxury of standing on principle.

You sound like you do have options, so exercise them by choosing not to work with recruiters who aren’t rude.

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A reader writes:

At my current employer, we’re being asked to sign a new legal agreement before they’ll process our bonus checks. One thing in the paperwork that caught my eye was this clause:

“1. Confidential Information. Both during and at all times after termination of my employment with the Company for any reason or no reason, I shall not use, disclose, publish or distribute to any person or entity any Confidential Information except as required for performance of my work for the Company or as authorized in advance and in writing by the Company. For purposes of this Agreement, ‘Confidential Information’ means … any information regarding my compensation or the details of my benefits package with the Company.”

First off, I’m wondering if this would apply to something anonymous like Glassdoor.com? Second (and I know this is asked a lot with usually the same answer)…is this legal? Articles like this one make me wonder if the NLRA applies in this case.

The National Labor Relations Act says that employers cannot prevent employees from discussing wages and working conditions among themselves. The idea is that employees need to be free to organize, and preventing them from discussing these topics would prevent them from organizing.

(There are some exceptions to this though. An employer can prohibit these discussions from taking place during times when people are supposed to working. And while employees can freely share information about their pay with other employees, they wouldn’t be protected by the law if they obtained information about other employees’ pay through files known to be off-limits to them or if they get others to break access restrictions and give them confidential information. In other words, Tom can tell you how much he makes, but getting the bookkeeper to tell you how much Tom is making wouldn’t be protected by the law.)

However, the law only applies to discussions within the organization. An employer can prohibit employees from discussing salary outside the organization. So yes, anonymous posts on GlassDoor would be a violation of the policy, if they were able to trace the post back to you.

There’s an upside to this policy though:  The next time you’re interviewing and an employer asks about your salary history, you can truthfully reply that your company prohibits you from sharing salary information externally.

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The average salary increase for 2011 was 2.8%. So if you earn $40,000 (the average income in the U.S.), that’s a raise of $1,120.

But you’re not average, of course, so what do you get? Top performers had a barely different median increase: 3.1%.

I mention this here largely because I think most people have no idea what kind of raise is reasonable to expect or ask for … and it’s useful to know the average raise is pretty low. That doesn’t mean that you can’t get significantly more if you’re hugely valuable to your employer; you often can. But it’s good to know these numbers for context.

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If you’re like most people, talking to your boss about your salary is intimidating. You might even avoid it altogether because you’re unsure how to bring it up or because you worry about how your manager will react. It’s time to get over that.

At the Intuit QuickBase blog today, I take on six common salary questions and (hopefully) demystify them. You can read it here — and please leave your comments over there as well!

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