November 2019

weekend free-for-all – November 30 – December 1, 2019

This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly no work and no school.) Book recommendation of the week: Know My Name, by Chanel Miller. This is by the woman who was assaulted by Brock Turner, and she’s an extraordinary writer and an […]

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open thread – November 29-30, 2019

It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […]

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Thanksgiving eve open thread

Are you having a holiday meltdown? Are you currently two hours into a three-day car ride? Do your parents expect you to sleep tonight in your childhood bedroom, which still has a twin bed, a Snoopy comforter, and a Marky Mark poster on the wall, plus your dad’s enormous elliptical machine that now takes up […]

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grown women are not “girl bosses”

To all the marketing people who keep emailing me pitches where they call grown women “girl bosses”: This is gross and sexist and you should stop. They’re women, not girls. And the default for “boss” is not male. “Boss” covers all genders. You don’t need to modify it with gender, just like you wouldn’t (one hopes) […]

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how to correct your boss

A reader writes: How do you recommend correcting your manager when they say something you know is incorrect? This could range from minor details to larger concepts — for example, pronouncing a client’s name wrong, or mentioning incorrect dates for future projects. I know my manager is balancing a lot, and her occasional inaccuracies are not ill-intentioned. […]

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