updates

update: someone with my name has stolen my work history

Remember the letter from the person whose work history had been stolen by someone using her same name (#3 at the link)? Someone was using her references, claiming to be her. Here’s the update. A big thanks to all the readers in the comments. You guys came with such fantastic suggestions. I contacted a lawyer […]

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updates: the bombed interview, the cheating coworker, and more

Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I bombed in an interview I asked for Thanks for publishing my letter. I appreciate your advice and all of the input from commenters. It helped me get a better understanding of how I had (and hadn’t) affected my goals, as well as the crisis of confidence […]

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update: my boss wants to bring me back into the religious fold

Remember the letter-writer whose boss was trying to bring her back into the religion he shared with her family? The first update was here, and here’s the latest: So, right before my letter was published I had one extremely uncomfortable interaction at an off-site office event with (former) Big Boss which crossed entirely new lines. I […]

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update: my new employee keeps tagging us in negative social media posts after we’ve told her to stop

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose new employee kept tagging the company and coworkers in negative social media posts even after they told her to stop? Here’s the (amazing) update. […]

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updates: the not-flirting coworker and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworkers think I’m flirting with them I wrote to you just about a year ago to ask for advice […]

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updates: the alcoholic coworker, the bad morale, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I think my coworker is an alcoholic (first update here) At this point, the update is pretty far removed from […]

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updates: the counteroffer, the bullying, and more

It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I accepted a counteroffer four months ago but now want to quit (#2 at the link) I wrote to you […]

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