update: should I report my fatphobic boss or am I being too sensitive? by Alison Green on March 30, 2023 Remember the letter-writer wondering whether to report her fatphobic boss? Here’s the update. As a recap, I was really struggling with my grandboss, Miranda, and her lack of boundaries, particularly about my changing body after I had a medical issue and procedure that resulted in me losing about 100 pounds. I’m doing well now health-wise […] Read the full article →
updates: my entry-level employee gave me a bunch of off-base “constructive criticism,” and more by Alison Green on March 29, 2023 Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. Is it weird to have my video on if everyone else’s is off? (#3 at the link) This is just a quick update on the Zoom etiquette question I had last year. I found both your input and readers’ feedback helpful! I hadn’t considered the privacy issues, […] Read the full article →
updates: my new boss scolded us about our private chat messages, and more by Alison Green on March 23, 2023 Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My new boss scolded us about our private chat messages First off, thank you so much for answering my letter. I sincerely appreciated your nuanced take on the situation, and it was so interesting to read through the debate in the comments over expectations of monitoring chat […] Read the full article →
updates: asking for a raise when your company doesn’t do raises, crawling at work, and more by Alison Green on March 16, 2023 Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. Should I ask for a raise at a company that doesn’t do raises? (#2 at the link) I have a GREAT update! I took your advice and decided to ask for a raise anyway, after some calculated thought and planning, and it worked! Just today I got […] Read the full article →
update: my boss and coworkers are constantly at my house by Alison Green on March 13, 2023 Remember the letter-writer whose boss and coworkers were constantly at her house — storing equipment there, holding meetings there, and even stopping by to use her bathroom? Here’s the update. First off, I want to thank you and the commenters for the advice. I hadn’t realized how ridiculous my situation had become, probably because small-town […] Read the full article →
updates: falling asleep on the job, the boss at the barbecue, and more by Alison Green on March 9, 2023 Here are four updates from past letter-writers — including one from a letter from 10 years ago! 1. I fell asleep on the job — on my first day Can’t believe it’s been 10 years already?! Time flies! As far as an update goes, professionally things have been going pretty well, albeit on a different […] Read the full article →
update: my needy boss wants me to “adopt” her by Alison Green on March 6, 2023 Remember the letter-writer whose needy boss tried to invite herself on the letter-writer’s vacations and nights out with her husband. (First update here.) After I reprinted it last week, the writer saw it and sent in a current update: What a surprise to see this pop up again! It’s been a long three years. Our […] Read the full article →
update: I supervise a manager who falsified an employee write-up … but I don’t think she should be fired by Alison Green on March 2, 2023 Remember the letter-writer who supervised a manager who falsified an employee write-up but didn’t think she should be fired? Here’s the update. Thanks for answering my letter. I saw some questions that came up in the comments so wanted to give more information about what happened. First, Jason choosing to work on-site did not mean […] Read the full article →
update: a DNA test revealed the CEO is my half brother … and he’s freaking out by Alison Green on March 1, 2023 Remember the letter-writer who learned through a DNA test that the company CEO was their half brother … and the CEO was freaking out? Here’s the update. My short update is that he 100% tried to fire me. The long update is complicated but this month has been unbelievable. Just after my question was posted, […] Read the full article →
update: is my future manager a bigoted jerk? by Alison Green on February 28, 2023 Remember the letter-writer last week who saw her future manager’s bigoted Twitter account and wanted to ask not to report to him? Here’s the update. Thanks for publishing and answering my letter. I actually already have an update! I ended up talking to Willow (my interim manager) about it the day after I emailed you. I […] Read the full article →